New Doula? Feeling Discouraged? READ THIS
- The WombSisterhood
- May 31
- 3 min read

You were told clients wouldn’t ask how many births you’ve attended, just about your training.
But every inquiry asks for your experience, and when you say you haven’t attended a birth yet…
-They ghost.
-They want someone “more experienced.”
Here’s the truth:
Without childbirth education, doulas often get lumped in as “just another set of hands to squeeze hips.”
And the comparison game starts:
“How many vaginal births have you helped someone have?”
“How many successful VBACs?”
“How many unmedicated births?”
“How willing are you to stand up to a doctor or nurse?”
“Will you advocate and protect, no matter what?”
This dynamic puts doulas in an impossible position and it's not sustainable.
Childbirth Education Changes the Landscape:
It makes you the expert, not the emergency response.
When you teach, you're no longer competing with exaggerated birth stats or unrealistic advocacy expectations.
You lead with wisdom, trust, and transformation; before labor even begins.
How Becoming a Childbirth Educator Sets You Apart:
-Shows your expertise, not just your hands-on “birth count”
-Positions you as an educator, not just a support person
-Clarifies your stance on interventions, birth options, and consent
-Empowers families before birth, reducing trauma and confusion
-Builds trust and connection, making clients feel supported from day one
-Shifts the focus from rescue to preparation
-Opens additional income streams through teaching
-Increases your visibility and credibility in your community
Most Doula Trainings Don’t Include CBE
And that’s a problem.
Many doulas leave their trainings equipped to care, but not equipped to teach.They can squeeze hips, offer emotional support, and hold space beautifully, but when it comes to educating and preparing families, they’re left uncertain or out of scope.
This creates a division between what doulas feel called to do, empower, educate, prepare and what they feel allowed to do.
But here’s the good news: You don’t have to stay stuck in that divide.
Our CBE Training Program gives you:
-Ready-to-print class handouts
-A complete framework to teach birth confidently
-Guidance for launching classes fast
-Access to our continuing education discount
What Makes You a Good Doula Has Nothing to Do with How Many Births You’ve Attended:
✅ You listen deeply and without judgment
✅ You honor birth as sacred and personal
✅ You hold space for all emotions without needing to fix them
✅ You educate families with evidence-based and heart-centered guidance
✅ You offer presence, not pressure
✅ You are grounded and peaceful even in uncertain moments
✅ You prepare families to make empowered decisions not dependent ones
✅ You support physiology over performance
✅ You never impose your preferences you uplift the birthing person’s
✅ You continuously learn and grow with humility
✅ You respect boundaries, yours and others’
✅ You show up fully, even when you're not the most experienced in the room
✅ You operate from calling, not comparison
✅ You speak truth and love into the birth space, not fear or ego
✅ You trust God, the body, and the birth process
✅ You stay curious, not controlling
✅ You know that transformation happens in preparation, not just in presence
🌿 Being a good doula is about your heart, your integrity, and your devotion to this work. Your character matters more than your client count.
Email us at TheWombSisterhood@gmail.com to learn more and get started with your childbirth educator certification today using our special continuing education registration discount
Don't wait for someone to give you permission. Step into leadership as a doula-educator. Let your voice and vision speak louder than your birth count.
Explore our 3in1 Training Program: https://faith-driven-birth.trainercentralsite.com/course/faith-driven-doula-childbirth-educator-certification-training
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